a friend introduced me to the following quote:
remember not only the men of good will,
but also those of ill will.
But do not remember all the suffering they have inflicted upon us.
Remember rather the fruits we have brought,
thanks to this suffering:
the greatness of heart that has grown out of this.
And when they come to judgment,
let all the fruits we have bourne be their forgiveness."
Found on a scrap of wrapping paper
at the liberation of Ravensbruck Concentration Camp